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# Day 18: You're stuck with yourself
- URL: https://www.aliciamckay.co.nz/day-18-stuck-with-yourself/
- Published: 2025-12-17T17:45:43.000Z
- Updated: 2025-12-17T17:45:42.000Z
- Description: Deal with it.
- Author: Alicia McKay
- Tags: 🎄 24 Days of Unpopular Opinions

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Welcome to [24 Days of Unpopular Opinions.](https://www.aliciamckay.co.nz/24-days/) In this series, enjoy an advent calendar of daily hot takes to help you get through the silly season.

With any luck, and some effort, we get better at being ourselves over time. We mitigate our weaknesses, embrace our strengths, build little habits and systems to buffer us. We change, grow, and adapt.

But we rarely transform. 

Your core traits aren't going anywhere. Some will be charming quirks, but others are a real pain in the ass. They're the kind of things you'd consider breaking up with a partner or friend over. 

Unfortunately, you can’t break up with yourself - not without dying. So you'll have to live with who you are.

Merry Christmas.

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### 🎄 About 24 Days of Unpopular Opinions

This December, I'm calling bullshit, to keep you sane over the silly season. Over 24 days, I'll share 24 unpopular opinions - like an advent calendar, but filled with controversy instead of chocolate. Share widely to whoever else needs this.

**Catch up on unpopular opinions you might have missed:**

[December 1: You don't have a strategy](https://www.aliciamckay.co.nz/day-1-2025/)

[December 2: CEOs are tiny babies](https://www.aliciamckay.co.nz/day-2-24-ceos-are-tiny-babies/)

[December 3: Women should be ugly and mean](https://www.aliciamckay.co.nz/women-should-be-ugly-and-mean/)

[December 4: Leaders are dry drunks](https://www.aliciamckay.co.nz/day-4-dry-drunk/)

[December 5: Conspiracy theorists are right](https://www.aliciamckay.co.nz/day-5-conspiracy-theorists)

[December 6: We should tell people to shut up](https://www.aliciamckay.co.nz/day-6-shut-up)

[December 7: We should lose our Internet privileges](https://www.aliciamckay.co.nz/day-7-internet)

[December 8: Self-help is a con](https://www.aliciamckay.co.nz/day-8-self-help/)

[December 9: There's no right answer](https://www.aliciamckay.co.nz/day-9-right-answer/)

[December 10: Play the power game](https://www.aliciamckay.co.nz/day-10-power-game)

[December 11: Email is evil](https://www.aliciamckay.co.nz/day-11-email-is-evil)

[December 12: Your list sucks](https://www.aliciamckay.co.nz/day-12-your-list-sucks)

[December 13: We need to talk about class](https://www.aliciamckay.co.nz/day-13-class)

[December 14: Kiwis don't work hard](https://www.aliciamckay.co.nz/day-14-work-hard)

[December 15: Boredom is good](https://www.aliciamckay.co.nz/day-15-boredom-is-good/)

[December 16: Money comes first](https://www.aliciamckay.co.nz/day-16-money-comes-first)

[December 17: You're not important](https://www.aliciamckay.co.nz/day-17-not-important)

[December 18: You're stuck with yourself](https://www.aliciamckay.co.nz/day-18-stuck-with-yourself)

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