Many powerful people are tiny little babies. (We all are, but seeking and occupying a position of power makes you extra vulnerable.)
- Everybody watches what you do and say.
- People are sensitive to your moods, but not to your struggles.
- It's a lonely life, with few or no true peers.
- You're surrounded by people gassing you up.
- You are not buddies with these people. They have to laugh at your jokes.
- Your words and actions carry gravitas and people are nervous around you. You're not aware of it half the time.
- You did all this to prove how good you were and it hasn't quite filled the hole.
- Every thought bubble has the potential to become a major initiative, just because you opened your mouth... and that's not good for anyone.
To get the respect of a powerful person, don't buy into the hype. Tell them what they need to hear, not what they want to hear, and they'll appreciate you for it.
Or, they'll fire you / restructure you out of a job.
Merry Christmas.