Identity

Who we are is shaped long before we choose it - but that’s not where the story ends.

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7 October 2026Maybe you don't existWho are you... really? 25 September 2026Time of the seasonWhat's your name? Who's your daddy? Is he rich like me? 11 September 2026Are you the master of your own destiny?Or is the world on a relentless march toward an inevitable future? You decide. 19 August 2026The art of finer distinctionsWho we are changes what we do. What we do changes who we are. Chicken. Egg. Chicken. 15 July 2026Choose meaningful friction over costly convenienceWe get to choose our hard. Convenience and conformity can have costly second-order effects. 3 July 2026How to conquer apathyThe unequivocal solution I would die in a ditch for. 5 June 2026Being a thought leader rotted my brainA Friday Flurry on escaping performative expertise and avoiding the internet 27 May 2026Are you busy - or burdened?If you're collapsing under the weight of things, this one is for you. 6 May 2026The tension is the engineWhy unresolved conflict may be the thing that keeps a life alive. 15 April 2026You are what you doHi scrollshitshowersleep, it's so nice to meet you. 18 March 2026What if you’re a character in someone else's story?What The Slap can teach us about our opinions. 30 January 2026WTF do you want? Desire is suspicious; productivity a scam.First Friday Flurry of 2026 goes hard. 19 November 2025Is all advice just projection?When people tell you what to do, they share more about them than you. 15 October 2025Take yourself seriouslyBecause you only have one life and being you is a full time job. 13 August 2025You are who you aren't anymoreStraddling the ravioli ravine with a Nashville musician to wonder about the cost of becoming yourself. 14 May 2025Everyday is everythingFind meaning in the daily drudgery or consign yourself to a lifetime of dissatisfaction 23 April 2025Put yourself in situationsYou don't need a plan. You need to put yourself in a situation and watch what happens. 16 April 2025Make guilty choices this weekGuilt fades. Resentment festers. 9 April 2025Hearing the whispers before they become screamsThe call is coming from inside the house 20 March 2025You have infinite capacity for transformationNew beginnings are wasted on young people