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In defence of furious women

The stories that taught us to blame them

In defence of furious women
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I love to watch the sunrise when I travel. It feels sneaky and rebellious, seeing a place untouched before the world rises for the day. When I visited the Greek island of Serifos, I rose before dawn and spent an hour climbing to the Castle of Chora, the island’s highest point. Salty air filling my lungs, sunscreen sweating into my eyes, I plowed up an endless track until I reached the castle - really a collection of stone buildings, encircled by ancient walls.

The story of Serifos

The Castle is a fortified village, built in the 1430s by Venetian lords known as terzieri. Even in the half-light, the village felt watchful and slightly uneasy. After the Byzantine Empire fell in the early 1200s, Venetian families ruled the island with an iron fist (and an iron mine!) until the Ottomans moved in around 1566. It was a tough time for Serifos’ locals. The lords were harsh, and prone to inter-family conflict, and conditions in the island’s iron mines were brutal. Serifos had been doing it tough for a while by then. During the Roman imperial period, Serifos was a place of exile, somewhere the empire sent people it didn’t want to deal with.

I didn’t go to Serifos in exile, or for its architectural or economic history. I went for Medusa. 

Caravaggio's Medusa

OG victim blaming

Medusa was a Gorgon in Greek mythology. You’ve probably heard of her: wild snake hair, a powerful gaze that turned people to stone. Angry gal. For hundreds of years, people have put Medusa on the front of their boats as a shield. She has come to symbolise power and protection, because according to maritime logic, she’s so ugly she keeps the evil away.

But Medusa wasn’t always ugly. She was once a beautiful young maiden; a priestess of Athena, committed to a life of chastity. That is, until Poseidon, god of the sea, got a look at her and had his way with her in Athena’s temple.

When Athena found out the holy vibes of her chaste temple had been compromised, she was furious. At Poseidon? No. Athena punished Medusa by turning her into a monster, installing the stone-turning glare and banishing her.

Not satisfied, Athena later eggs on the demigod Perseus, son of Zeus and slayer of monsters, to kill Medusa, equipping him with a shield and a mirror to avoid stony transformation. Perseus takes the bait and chops Medusa’s head off, bringing it to the island to Serifos to show it off and use it for protection. 

Medusa isn’t a monster story. It's a story about how we reframe reality and turn women into demons instead of holding men accountable for their behaviour.

Source: The Historian's Hut - "Pandora's Box Was Actually A Jar"